My current partner has gotten me thinking about it, and I've grown rather concerned that there might be a problem. While we aren't trying to be reproductive in our escapades, she (a 23 year old cis-female heterosexual still feels that this is a shot to her ego, and the phrase is it me? is thrown around far to often. And it's not. She is beautiful, and naughty, and everything that I've wanted in a partner. I just want to please her. If there's anything you could suggest, I'd love your help.